This mom of 9 children (with 2 sets of twins!) has done a wonderful job of what this site is all about. I don't know if she reads Mom Stuff, and I certainly don't take any credit. I'm just thrilled that she's "got it".
It's too easy to copy someone else and even covet who they are. That leads to discouragement and it spills out in how we mother.
Learn from each other, depend on each other ... but for goodness' sakes, be who God designed you to be and know that He did it for a reason!